Everyone have frustrating people around them, it may be people at your work, family members or friends who frustrate you, drives you crazy or makes you unhappy in your daily life. As a result, you start thinking that these people are stupid idiots and very difficult to handle. But things are not like that, frustrating people are not that difficult to handle if you know the truth. So to find out the truth, please read the article.
Before knowing to deal with frustrating people first, asks yourself that, Are you a frustrating person? If you are then it is going to be very funny. But for now I am assuming that you are not that type of person who frustrates others and if you are then please stop doing that.
3 Things to Know to Deal with Frustrating People
If anybody do something wrong we got frustrated because we do not understand the reality. The reality is to know that people have different problems. If you have no problems in your life, everything is going great for you than it does not mean that other people have that life too.
We often forgot that people have realities and stories that we do not know. Bad stuff happens in people life every day. As a result, people will do something bad which causes your frustration. But you need to understand that these people are nobody to frustrate you because they have other problems in their lives which cause them to behave badly. So if anybody at your work, home or in friends does something wrong do not get frustrated. Everything is going well in your life then why you will frustrate by such people who are already fucked up in their lives.
Many people are frustrated by others people around them because they do not have clarity between them. Do people around you know what you desire? What do you want? What do you think? If not, then chances of your frustration increase. For examples, your wife might not know how to please you; people in your work might not know what you desire and your friends might not know what you expect from them.
This all happen because you have not communicated yet or you do not have clarity of things. Maybe you mention one time or left some hints sometimes. But people to have real clarity; you need to have real conversations. Once you have the clarity it becomes easy for other people to understand you and do not do the things which cause your frustration.
All people are not same
All people are not same. What you can do other might not able to do. And what others can do you might not able to do. Lots of people around you do not know how to do something. And if someone not able to do what you desire then there is no reason to get frustrated. Because all people do not have same knowledge, skills, abilities, confidence to actually be able to support what you want.
In reality, many people do not know what to do? How to start? So before getting frustrated with such people you need to think about how you can help them. Can you teach them or may provide some coaching so that they can able to provide what you want. Once you start to desire that you want to help other people in their struggle then you be a different personality, who knows how to deal with frustrating people.
More frustrating people you handle each day, more you start to feel what we called “Fully Charged Life.”